"DATING MY EX"We had a mutual break up after a few months and remained close afterwards. In college, my now wife and I decided to take our friendship to the next level. We were married a few years later and now have two kids. There is no awkwardness between any of us and the three of us frequently go out to dinner together. Everyone is lighthearted about it and my wife makes jokes all the time. My sister-in-law is now married So, yeah, that worked out.
Their relationship as brothers remain the same. So, I started dating my ex's big brother and we are now living together.
We both thought it would be so awkward but we are so happy together now: I love him loads. I'm dating my ex's identical twin brother. He treats me better and appreciates me. My ex treated me horribly and always yelled at me.
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Meredith Videos. I would advise staying away from your exes or their family members romantically regardless of the circumstances. At best it's an awkward topic, at worst it could lead to a lot of pain down the road. Best of luck if you do go through with it. Sorry OP, I think you are not thinking about this in the big picture. I think this has the potential for being a really bad situation for you down the line, and I'd encourage you to nip this relationship in the bud. You have a history of physical and mental abuse with this guy's brother.
Could this work? Yeah, sure. In theory. But in my opinion, it's far more likely that this will crash and burn. Think about the practical implications of this relationship in the future. How are you going to navigate telling your respective families about the relationship?
How are you going to deal with the eventuality that at some point in the future, you and Randy are going to come into contact again? I get that you're attracted to this guy, but I see way too many potential problems and pitfalls to put any emotional effort into making this work. Plus, you might feel especially connected to him because he's safe.
You already know him. You're comfortable with him. You went through a really bad situation with his brother, so you might feel overly sensitive to guys who you feel safe around. I will agree with this despite what the majority of this topic is saying. I get his brother so his responsibility, but this would be driving a wedge in what little they have together and leave it permanantly.
Come on, you just have to look somewhere else. Just be done with this family. If you have to even post this question then you have doubts. Yes it sucks but you will survive. You're certainly not crazy for considering it but I guess I'd always be a little wary about the possible baggage you don't know about.
If your connection is strong, then you owe it to yourself to pursue happiness. But I'd say to pay attention to the little voice in your brain and really interrogate any doubts you have when they come up.
Don't let your ex kill your happiness with his brother. Looks like that Ryan and Randy are completely two different people. Seems like Ryan really has a interest in you and wants to peruse it more. Give him a chance. Don't think differently about it and go for it.
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It was his problem that he screwed everything up not you. If you are really happy with Ryan then do it. This isn't on you, this is on the brother.
If the brother has no problem dating his own brother's ex then you are perfectly fine. You don't owe any loyalty to an ex. Fwiw, a good friend of mine is in a pretty similar situation dating an ex's brother and it seems to be going well for her.
It's rarely a good idea to date people who have been carrying a torch for your for this long don't kid yourself, if he likes you now he liked you thenand that's before you even get into the family stuff. To answer one of your questions: no, you don't owe Randy anything. But why are you so eager to jump into another relationship with a boy raised by the same 2 people that modeled the destructive relationship demonstrated by your psycho ex?
Yes, it sounds like a total stress dream. Your ex dating your sister or brother or ( more Psycho music) YOUR MOM. But it actually happens a lot. I'm dating my ex's brother, and I'm terrified I'll accidentally call him his im dating my ex's cousin but I still love my ex.. does this mean im a bad. I'm really doing great considering what all happened. Well, here's the thing. I don't see any problem with you dating your ex-fiance's brother.
Siblings can be raised by perfectly good, loving parents and one of them could still end up being an asshole. If Ryan doesn't care then I don't see why you should either, after all it's his actual sibling.
If he doesn't even really have a relationship, or his family, with your ex then even more reason to just go for it! Thank you, this is all great advice! My only concern would be whether this would damage the relationship between the two brothers. But hey, it sounds like there's no relationship left to ruin!
I'm not dumb, of course, I told him that we should meet at a public place. . Dating my ex's brother wasn't my biggest mistake; not telling him. “I'm currently in a serious relationship with my ex's older sister. “My wife dated my brother for a few months before we started dating. Then there was this girl I knew, not my type of girl I'd date mind you, Too shy for me. I run away from shy girls. I'm more of a fun, let's get down.
However, what about family occasions? Would this mean you're stuck spending time with an abusive ex on a semi-regular basis?I Set My Brother & My Ex on a Blind Date Across the World
It's between you and Ryan but best I can say is proceed with caution and definitely watch for red flags. What are you asking specifically? Is that what you mean? Please be more specific. What does his brother think? Notify me of follow-up comments by email.
Woman is dating her ex-boyfriend's brother. I'm 30 and he's 28, so he's not that much younger than me that he should be relying on texting so. Ryan wants to pursue a relationship and I'm really into him, but I'm also not sure if it's a good idea given the fact that his brother is my demented. A few months after my dad died, my ex's brother came to pick up an engine had never dated anyone before that he didn't want to start dating me yet. I think somewhere in the back of my mind, I'm still waiting for you to call.
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